In big cities, there is a phenomenon that some parents decide to leave their jobs to keep their children accompany in school when their children reach Senior Grade Three. There are both advantages and disadvantages over this action.
在大城市里,出現(xiàn)了這樣的一個(gè)現(xiàn)象,一些父母在孩子到了高三的時(shí)候決定放棄他們的工作陪著孩子去讀書。這一現(xiàn)象既有優(yōu)勢(shì)也有劣勢(shì)。
On the one hand, it is convenient for parents to take care of their children. They can help their children to do some basic things, such as washing clothes so that their children can get more time to study. Living nearly or live with their children, they can save much time on the way between home and school. In addition, parents are able to observe the changes in their children’s mood and give them some leads in time so that their children would not so easier to feel confused and disappointed when they meet some troubles.
一方面,這便于父母照顧孩子。他們可以幫他們的孩子做一些基本的事情,如洗衣服,這樣他們的孩子就可以獲得更多的時(shí)間來學(xué)習(xí)。和他們的孩子住在一起或者離得很近,他們也可以節(jié)約家跟學(xué)校來回的時(shí)間。此外,父母可以觀察到孩子的情緒變化,及時(shí)給他們一些引導(dǎo),這樣他們的孩子在遇到困難時(shí)就不會(huì)那么容易感到困惑和失望。
However, on the other hand, this kind of action also has some negative impacts on their children. In the first place, it enhances their children’s dependence upon their parents, which increases the difficulty in developing children’s ability of independence. Second, parent’s keeping their children accompany in school gives more pressure to their children unconsciously, which is opposite to parents’ original intention. Finally, living with parents all the time leads to lack of communication with their peers and classmates, and that’s not good for children’s integrated development.
然而,另一方面,這種行為對(duì)于孩子也會(huì)有負(fù)面影響。首先,這增加了孩子對(duì)父母的依賴性,也就增加了培養(yǎng)孩子獨(dú)立性的難度。第二,家長陪讀會(huì)在無形中給孩子更大的壓力,這和父母的初衷是相反。最后,一直跟父母一起住會(huì)導(dǎo)致與同伴和同學(xué)溝通不良,這是不利于孩子的全面發(fā)展的。
As far as I am concerned, it is unnecessary for parents to keep their children accompany in school in that living alone is ultimately a basic skill everyone should master.
就我而言,家長陪讀是沒有必要的,因?yàn)楠?dú)自生活是每個(gè)人都應(yīng)該掌握的一個(gè)基本技能。
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