When we judge a person, we are likely to think about whether he or she is keeping promises, the person who always keeps his promises is popular, people around him are willing to make friends with him. So keeping promises is very important, we should never break our promises, or we will be abandoned by others. First, we should never late for meeting or date. When we make a deal with others to meet at some places, we shall be there in time or earlier, it is rude to be late and let others wait for a long time. I hate my friends late for meeting, though they have reasons, they could have been here in advance. Second, we’d better think twice before making a promise, if we promise people, it means we have ability to finish it, people are hold great hope on us, if we fail, how disappoint it is. So we should measure ourselves before we making a promise.

當我們判斷一個人的時候，我們傾向于考慮他或者她是否信守承諾，守承諾的人受歡迎，周圍的人都喜歡和他做朋友。所以受承諾很重要，我們不要違背我們的諾言，不然會被大家遺棄。第一，我們永遠都不要在開會和約會時遲到。當我們和別人相約見面時，應(yīng)該準時到達或者提前到達，遲到和讓別人長時間等待是很無禮的。我不喜歡我的朋友開會遲到，雖然他們有各種理由，但是他們本可以提前到。第二，在許下諾言前我們要三思，如果我們答應(yīng)了他人，這意味著我們有能力去完成，人們對我們有很大的期望，如果我們失敗了，這么失望啊。因此我們在許諾前要衡量自己。